Teen Cashier Seeing Food Stamp Use, Changed Opinion About the Democrat Party

From the Daily Signal:

Mamaw encouraged me to get a job—she told me that it would be good for me and that I needed to learn the value of a dollar. When her encouragement fell on deaf ears, she then demanded that I get a job, and so I did, as a cashier at Dillman’s, a local grocery store.

Working as a cashier turned me into an amateur sociologist. A frenetic stress animated so many of our customers. One of our neighbors would walk in and yell at me for the smallest of transgressions—not smiling at her, or bagging the groceries too heavy one day or too light the next. Some came into the store in a hurry, pacing between aisles, looking frantically for a particular item. But others waded through the aisles deliberately, carefully marking each item off of their list.

Some folks purchased a lot of canned and frozen food, while others consistently arrived at the checkout counter with carts piled high with fresh produce.

The more harried a customer, the more they purchased precooked or frozen food, the more likely they were to be poor. And I knew they were poor because of the clothes they wore or because they purchased their food with food stamps. After a few months, I came home and asked Mamaw why only poor people bought baby formula. “Don’t rich people have babies, too?” Mamaw had no answers, and it would be many years before I learned that rich folks are considerably more likely to breast-feed their children.

As my job taught me a little more about America’s class divide, it also imbued me with a bit of resentment, directed toward both the wealthy and my own kind.

The owners of Dillman’s were old-fashioned, so they allowed people with good credit to run grocery tabs, some of which surpassed a thousand dollars. I knew that if any of my relatives walked in and ran up a bill of over a thousand dollars, they’d be asked to pay immediately. I hated the feeling that my boss counted my people as less trustworthy than those who took their groceries home in a Cadillac. But I got over it: One day, I told myself, I’ll have my own d–ned tab.

I also learned how people gamed the welfare system. They’d buy two dozen packs of soda with food stamps and then sell them at a discount for cash. They’d ring up their orders separately, buying food with food stamps, and beer, wine, and cigarettes with cash. They’d regularly go through the checkout line speaking on their cell phones. I could never understand why our lives felt like a struggle while those living off of government largesse enjoyed trinkets that I only dreamed about.

Mamaw listened intently to my experiences at Dillman’s. We began to view much of our fellow working class with mistrust. Most of us were struggling to get by, but we made do, worked hard, and hoped for a better life. But a large minority was content to live off the dole.

Every two weeks, I’d get a small paycheck and notice the line where federal and state income taxes were deducted from my wages. At least as often, our drug-addict neighbor would buy T-bone steaks, which I was too poor to buy for myself but was forced by Uncle Sam to buy for someone else. This was my mindset when I was seventeen, and though I’m far less angry today than I was then, it was my first indication that the policies of Mamaw’s “party of the working man”—the Democrats—weren’t all they were cracked up to be.

Political scientists have spent millions of words trying to explain how Appalachia and the South went from staunchly Democratic to staunchly Republican in less than a generation.

Some blame race relations and the Democratic Party’s embrace of the civil rights movement. Others cite religious faith and the hold that social conservatism has on evangelicals in that region.

A big part of the explanation lies in the fact that many in the white working class saw precisely what I did, working at Dillman’s. As far back as the 1970s, the white working class began to turn to Richard Nixon because of a perception that, as one man put it, government was “payin’ people who are on welfare today doin’ nothin’! They’re laughin’ at our society! And we’re all hardworkin’ people and we’re gettin’ laughed at for workin’ every day!”


Yup, we hard working people are getting laughed at by the Uniparty Elites that control both parties and by those on the receiving end.  We’re paying the freight and have been doing so for decades.  For what?  So politicians can keep getting elected and re-elected by offering more free stuff?

That’s it in the nutshell.

Government Assistance (our assistance) was supposed to be a hand up not a hand out.  Politicians now call them “Entitlements”.  What?  Who’s entitled to anything?

Decades ago most people were loathe to ask for help much less receive it because people were once proud.  After decades of governmental social experimentation and political pandering we have a generational problem where some people don’t have a clue as to what “work” really is.  Their grandparents and parents never had a job and thus they do not understand anything about it, much less desire a job.  Pride in many communities is gone.  It’s easier to sell drugs on the street corner, yap with your homies, bang your baby mommas, and get your free stuff than it is to work.

The free stuff has been expanded to college grants to specific minorities making higher education more expensive and in most case worthless since everyone gets a trophy.  Social Security benefits have been expanded to illegals because some women just so happened to poop out a kid who is now a US citizen.  Meanwhile, the elderly are eating catfood.  For the most part, American citizens who have paid into the systems their entire lives don’t get squat or maybe just some crumbs.  We have veterans that can’t get treatment at the VA hospitals yet the VA has incentive programs to employees that deny veterans their benefits to the tune of millions in bonuses.  The systems are entirely broken and corrupt from top down, left to right.

I could go on for thousands of words as to what is wrong with our social benefit/government cheese programs, so I won’t.  We all know government programs have been inefficient or flat out don’t work, and have been for a very long time.  In many cases the programs need to be eliminated along with the jobs of those that administer them.  

Further, community leaders need to step up and begin the process of reintroducing proper moral and common sense incentives and leadership for future generations to understand and embrace a work ethic and consequently gain some self worth.  That’s a real tall order but it must begin.  Politicians don’t have the will to even attempt any reforms for fear of being labeled ____ (fill-in the blank) .  Community leaders won’t either since their livelihoods depend on victimhood.  The whole system is so effed-up that it needs to be nuked.  It needs addressing beyond lip service because we’re broke and that gravy train will hit a wall sooner rather than later.

President Trump has his work cut out for him.

~ Hardnox

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8 Responses to Teen Cashier Seeing Food Stamp Use, Changed Opinion About the Democrat Party

  1. Uriel says:

    Great rant Hardnox. For years I worked in low paying second jobs just to keep my own children fed and clothed in addition to working as a teacher. I saw a LOT of problems. How certain people piled high their carts with things I could only get after months of saving. How landlords abused renters often taking in kind food stamps and “privileges” for poor people who were either baby factories or actually trying to follow good practices. Recently in an apartment complex I watched loafing “students” barely making grades fed, clothed and housed with three times what I as a senior and disabled could not get. The system is totally f*d up when I had 5th grade students say Exactly how they would run their future and did it by hook and crook. Hand ups should have time limits and criteria. Hand outs for life from 15 to 50 or older should not be allowed. After Katrina it became even more obvious when people talked about generational housing and welfare even though it should never have been possible. Now there are huge studies showing how families bringing in six figures STILL live in government housing and receive welfare. Unfriggin believable! but vets, disabled and truly needy can’t get a dime if they are the wrong color or are not refugees or illegal.

    • Hardnox says:

      Thanks Uriel. The whole system is completely screwed up. The fraud and even legal manipulation is unbelieveable.

      Just recently I witnessed a woman with several kids pile porterhouse steaks into her cart along with these huge shrimp and other assorted condiments then swipe her EBT card and load it into her Lexus.

      I almost fell over. It’s just criminal, especially when those that truly need help don’t get it.

      • Uriel says:

        But ya know Lexus are too expensive to sell now Hardnox (ha). At one time vehicles were looked at closely and some who desperately needed help were terrorized for having a dime in the bank or a car less than ten years old. Seriously even funeral policies were a no no. At least from those I know personally here.

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  3. Common Teri says:

    My family is on the”DOLE” because of the “DOLE”. We pay more in state taxes for food stamps than we get. As far as we are concerned get rid of all of it including social security – yeah, we’re on it but we wouldn’t be on the “DOLE” if the government policies throughout the years hadn’t forced us there.

    • Uriel says:

      Hi Teri. I agree. Had our government done all it could to keep jobs in the US not farm them out we would all be better off.

    • Hardnox says:

      Welcome to N&F Terri. I get it. We pay higher and higher taxes, including property taxes, and we get nothing in return. The grape has been squeezed and we only have the skin left over.

  4. Terry says:

    Quit complaining. We still get $250 from the gubmint to bury ourselves with !
    Seriously, I have always said food stamps should only be redeemed in govt. warehouses for essentials like flour, powdered milk, rice, canned veggies & meats, cheese…..etc. Keep ’em alive & fed, but make them want to work for more.

    Good post ‘Nox.