A Sunday Feel Good Story – The Blue Rose

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Sometimes the message of the story is more important than the verifiability of the piece. This story may or may not be true, but it doesn’t really matter.

Having four visiting family members, my wife was very busy, so I offered to go to the store for her to get some needed items, which included light bulbs, paper towels, trash bags, detergent and Clorox.  So off I went. 

I scurried around the store, gathered up my goodies and headed for the checkout counter, only to be blocked in the narrow aisle by a young man who appeared to be about sixteen-years-old.  I wasn’t in a hurry, so I patiently waited for the boy to realize  that I was there.  This was when he waved his hands excitedly in the air and declared in a loud voice, “Mommy, I’m over here.” 

It was obvious now, he was mentally challenged and also startled as he turned and saw me standing so close to him, waiting to squeeze by.  His eyes widened and surprise exploded on his face as I said, “Hey Buddy, what’s your name?”  “My name is Denny and I’m shopping with my mother,” he responded proudly.   

“Wow,” I said, “that’s a cool name; I wish my name was Denny, but my name is Steve.” “Steve, like Stevarino?” he asked. “Yes,” I answered.  “How old are you Denny?”  “How old am I now, Mommy?” he asked his mother as she slowly came over from the next aisle.  “You’re fifteen-years-old Denny; now be a good boy and let the man pass by.” 

I acknowledged her and continued to talk to Denny for several more minutes about summer, bicycles and school.  I watched his brown eyes dance with excitement, because he was the center of someone’s attention. He then abruptly turned and headed toward the toy section.

Denny’s mom had a puzzled look on her face and thanked me for taking the time to talk with her son.  She told me that most people wouldn’t even look at him, much less talk to him.  I told her that it was my pleasure and then I said something I have no idea where it came from, other than by the prompting of the Holy Spirit. 

I told her that there are plenty of red, yellow, and pink roses in God’s Garden; however, “Blue Roses” are very rare and should be appreciated for their beauty and distinctiveness.  You see, Denny is a Blue Rose and if someone doesn’t stop and smell that rose with their heart and touch that rose with their kindness, then they’ve missed a blessing from God. 

 She was silent for a second, then with a tear in her eye she asked, “Who are you?”  Without thinking I said, “Oh, I’m probably just a dandelion, but I sure love living in God’s garden.”  She reached out, squeezed my hand and said, “God bless you!” and then I had tears in my eyes.

Description DandelionFlower.jpgMay I suggest, the next time you see a BLUE ROSE, don’t turn your head and walk off.  Take the time to smile and say Hello.  Why?  Because, by the grace of GOD, this mother or father could be you.  This could be your child, grandchild, niece or nephew.   What a difference a moment can mean to that person or their family.

From an old dandelion… Live simply; Love generously; Care deeply; Speak kindly; and, Leave the rest to God. 

If this story blesses you today please consider sharing it with others.  “People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”

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Amen, Stevarino, amen.

~Kathy

(h/t Dino)

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10 Responses to A Sunday Feel Good Story – The Blue Rose

  1. Hardnox says:

    Amen. Good story and good words to live by.

    I never miss an opportunity to engage such a person. They are wonderful. Supermarkets used to hire them as baggers or cart collectors but I rarely see them anymore.

  2. vonmesser says:

    We have one of these blue roses in my church and she is included in everything we can help her keep up with. We have just accepted another one into the local Knights of Columbus Assembly and have gotten him trained with the Color Corps..

  3. Don says:

    We have a blue rose in our church congregation and he is an active part of our group and a very talented special olympics athlete. It is a true pleasure to know this 40 year old young man and his parents are very special people.

  4. CW says:

    Love this story, Kathy.

    >>”…by the grace of GOD, this mother or father could be you.”

    That’s such a sobering truth. Parents of blue roses not only have to deal with daily difficulties that most of us can’t imagine, but on top of that they are robbed of certain pleasures that so many other parents take for granted, like seeing your child receive positive attention from a stranger.

  5. WTXGunRunner says:

    That is a beautiful and wonderful story. So touching. Good one, K

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  7. I was blessed by this story. It was something I definitely had to share, :).

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  9. Terry says:

    Nice story, Kathy.

  10. w barnacastle says:

    A great reminder! Thank you!